Where You Should Be This Week

Ever have the problem where you wish you could attend a pastors/leadership/church conference in California but just don’t have the time or money? (All the cool stuff seems to come out of California for some reason…)

Well Radicalis will be streaming their entire conference LIVE, ONLINE, all this week!

So what is Radicalis?

Written Explanation:

“Radicalis is a unique hands-on, comprehensive experience that will enhance each member of your team’s role in your church and build and inspire them to serve God in your community and the world. Rick Warren, the Saddleback Team and leading national pastors will challenge, develop, and expand your vision to be amoving force for God in today’s world.

They’ll help you understand the paradigm, learn the processand build relationships for expanding your ministry. They’ll enlarge your understanding of what “church” and “ministry” mean to enable you to affect positive, purposeful change for God. Imagine what would happen in your community, in your church and in ourworld if your church team collectively shared a Radical experience guided by the Spirit of God in which we saw His calling and His will for your ministry.

You can access the conference here all this week.

Praise Jesus for multitasking and the interent.

-jordan

Bible Cheat Sheet

Do you ever find yourself struggling with sin?  Sometimes it can be hard to know where advice is located in the Bible to help you overcoming sin.  Try following the Matthew “cheat sheet” if you struggle with:

  • Anger: see Matthew 5:21-26
  • Lust: see Matthew 5:27-30
  • Divorce: see Matthew 5:31-32
  • Retaliation: see Matthew 5:38-42
  • Loving Your Enemies: see Matthew 5:43-48
  • Anxiety: see Matthew 6:25-34
  • Judging: see Matthew 7:1-6

So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.  Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.” -Matthew 7:12-14

Did I miss anything?

-jordan

Super Sunday Recap

Fast Facts:

About the Party:

  • I shaved my beard into a “Saints Stash”.  I also wore a cut off white t-shirt written with a black sharpie that said, “Real Saints wear stashes” on the front and, “Peyton Who” on the back.  Louisiana is a rough place located deep in the south so I figured it was only fitting that I look rough from the south to support the boys.
  • I called the final score within 10 points.  My prize?  The much coveted Pee-Wee authentic NFL football.  Maybe I should make it a traveling trophy?  On second thought, nope, it’s all mine!
  • We broadcasted the entire party at our house via Ustream.  I’m sure it was insane watching the “crowd” go back and forth.  All in all, we connected people from Wisconsin, Washington State, and Illinois that couldn’t be with us tonight.  Well worth it in my book.  While we wished you could have been with us in person and missed you all a ton, thanks to everyone that tuned in!
  • I love that we “stock up” on snacks for our weekly Sunday night GeNESIS gatherings via the big game.  We have nine bags of food in my kitchen ready to go to the church for GeNESIS.  Awesome.

About the Game:

  • Drew Brees finished the night 32-of-39 with 288 yards and two touchdowns and was named the game’s most valuable player.  To be the best you have to beat the best.  That’s exactly what happened.  hands down, he was a lot of fun to watch.
  • The Who played the halftime show.  Who cares/cared?
  • No matter what team you cheered for, New Orleans won its first title in any professional sport.  It is always awesome to see the underdogs “win one”.  How about it Chicago Cubs?  Were you watching?  It’s your turn!

What a good night.  After the game was over we had some students stick around to hang out and talk for awhile regardless that everyone else took off.  It’s always nice to know that our house is warm and welcoming.  While I’m going to miss a lot of my seniors who are graduating this year, I couldn’t be more proud of the decisions they are making for Christ and how they are following the leading of the Spirit.

How was Super Sunday for you?

-jordan

Conversation With Myself

Today I went through some old photos I had laying around. It all started with a twitter post I had about haircuts in Junior High. I hunted forever and could only find this one one picture from that time period (I’m betting my mom has a ton at her house that she would love to share with the world).

While it’s been a long time since Junior High (as you can tell), I was wondering what I would say to myself if I had a chance to sit down with that handsome guy.

The conversation might include some of the following quotes.

  • “Your personality is one in a million.  Just because some people don’t like it, a lot of people love it!”
  • “Yup, your voice still carries (it gets a little deeper too).”
  • “While you’re in school, keep in mind that your school grades don’t always reflect your intelligence.  You get a college degree in the future, not lying, I promise.  I’ll let you find out what it is in and where it’s from.  You’ll be blown away.”
  • “Eye contacts are awesome.  They make these ones that you can keep in your eyes for over a month without taken them out.  Of course, you’ll keep them in your eyes for a lot longer than that.”
  • “Your wife is totally awesome.  However, she is way different than the woman you have pictured in your head right now.”
  • “Jesus is a guy you’ll meet in about six years.  You’ll engage in Him a lot differently than the world, and a lot of “church people” do.  And yes, you will still break the mold when it comes to Christians.”
  • “Keep the dream alive when it comes to Bulldogs.  Having a dog is everything you think it is and then some.  However, he will eat a few things that are dear to your heart.”
  • “You are going to constantly fight with yourself inside.  You’ll be your biggest critic in the whole world, probably for the rest of your life.  It never goes away.  It’s going to take a lifetime to figure out but stay strong, it’s one of your best qualities.”

What would you say now if you could have a conversation with the you from Junior High?

I wonder if i would have even listened…

-jordan

Baby Muck Update

We are working on the nursery right now.

Less than 4 months away!

-jordan

People I Follow on Twitter

Check out a few people I “follow” on Twitter and why.

Randoms:

  • Chad OchoCinco (OGOchoCinco): Formerly Chad Johnson of the Cincinnati Bengals.  This guy is crazier than a box of rocks.  He says some of the most random/weird stuff in the world.  In the morning Chad asks, “Good morning world, what did I miss while I was asleep?” and people respond!
  • John Mayer (johncmayer): John is another guy that makes me laugh.  I’m pretty sure the man would twitter if he was getting murdered.
  • Justin Long (JustinLong_): Justin is a buddy of mine from college.  He posts some of the funniest stuff.  Everything from the sound of frozen lakes to the secret behind The Black Eyed Peas’ success (http://bit.ly/91jAFL).
  • Rain Wilson (rainnwilson): Rain is better knows as Dwight from “The Office”.  He is a weird human being.  Example tweet: “Diamonds. RT what’s ur favorite pizza topping?? (via @traylove19)”
  • Derek Brooks (broox): Derek has been a friend of mine for years.  It blows my mind that we are friends.  I think we have hung out in person maybe twelve times.  Regardless, Derek leads a fascinating life.  Check out his website here.

Pastors/Leaders

  • Rob Bell (realrobbell):  Rob is pastor who chooses to twitters about his life often instead of just the ministry.  While you do get your fill of his tour updates, resources to his books, etc. it’s still pretty sweet that the man allows you to see the other things that go on in his life.  Example: http://twitpic.com/vyf4a
  • Rick Warren (RickWarren): It’s amazing the incite Rick can put into a 140 characters or less.  I love that he uses U for “you” and R for “are”.  Love it!
  • Steven Furtick (stevenfurtick):  Honestly I only follow Steven for links to his blog posts.  The man is an interesting, interesting individual.
  • Paul Baloche (paulbaloche): Paul is a worship leader that drops awesome tweets about leading worship and everything that goes with it.
  • Wes Watson (weswatson): Wes is the audio visual guy from Elevation Church.  Although he hasn’t updated it forever, you can check out Wes’s blog here.

Just a few.

Who do you “follow”?

-jordan

Fun Wednesday: What’s on Your Desk?

If a man’s home is his castle, what is his office? So many people spend a large percentage of their day at a desk.  While I go to and from my desk often in the week, I still have a desk.
The question was asked, What’s on your desk?
Here’s the answer:
Your turn.  What’s on your desk?
-jordan

6 Reasons Pastors Should Blog

In this article I want to convince as many pastors as possible to sit down and start a blog today. If I can’t convince them, then I want to convince churchgoers to hound their pastor until he does.  OK, all that’s overstatement, perhaps. You can still be a good pastor and not blog.  However, here’s why I think it would be good for you and your congregation if you did.

Pastors should blog…

1. …to write.

If you’re a pastor, you probably already know the value writing has for thinking. Through writing, you delve into new ideas and new insights. If you strive to write well, you will at the same time be striving to think well.  Then when you share new ideas and new insights, readers can come along with you wherever your good writing and good thinking bring you.  There is no better way to simply and quickly share your writing than by maintaining a blog. And if you’re serious about your blog, it will help you not only in your thinking, but in your discipline as well, as people begin to regularly expect quality insight from you.

2. …to teach.

Most pastors I’ve run into love to talk. Many of them laugh at themselves about how long-winded they’re sometimes tempted to be.  Enter Blog.  Here is where a pastor has an outlet for whatever he didn’t get to say on Sunday. Your blog is where you can pass on that perfect analogy you only just thought of; that hilarious yet meaningful story you couldn’t connect to your text no matter how hard you tried; that last point you skipped over even though you needed it to complete your 8-point acrostic sermon that almost spelled HUMILITY.

And more than just a catch-all for sermon spill-over, a blog is a perfect place for those 30-second nuggets of truth that come in your devotions or while you’re reading the newspaper. You may never write a full-fledged article about these brief insights or preach a whole sermon, but via your blog, your people can still learn from them just like you did.

3. …to recommend.

With every counseling session or after-service conversation, a pastor is recommending something. Sometimes it’s a book or a charity. Maybe it’s a bed-and-breakfast for that couple he can tell really needs to get away. And sometimes it’s simply Jesus.  With a blog, you can recommend something to hundreds of people instead of just a few. Some recommendations may be specific to certain people, but that seems like it would be rare. It’s more likely to be the case that if one man asks you whether you know of any good help for a pornography addiction, then dozens of other men out there also need to know, but aren’t asking.

Blog it.

Recommendation, however, is more than pointing people to helpful things. It’s a tone of voice, an overall aura that good blogs cultivate.  Blogs are not generally good places to be didactic. Rather, they’re ideal for suggesting and commending. I’ve learned, after I write, to go back and cut those lines that sound like commands or even overbearing suggestions, no matter how right they may be. Because if it’s true for my audience, it’s true for me, so why not word it in such a way that I’m the weak one, rather than them?  People want to know that their pastor knows he is an ordinary, imperfect human being. They want to know that you’re recommending things that have helped you in your own weakness. If you say, “When I struggled with weight-loss, I did such-and-such,” it will come across very differently than if you say, “Do such-and-such if you’re over-weight…”

If you use your blog to encourage people through suggesting and commending everything from local restaurants to Jesus Christ, it will complement the biblical authority that you rightly assume when you stand behind the pulpit.

4. …to interact.

There are a lot of ways for a pastor to keep his finger on the pulse of his people. A blog is by no means necessary in this regard. However, it does add a helpful new way to stay abreast of people’s opinions and questions.  Who knows what sermon series might arise after a pastor hears some surprising feedback about one of his 30-second-nuggets-of-truth?

5. …to develop an eye for what is meaningful.

For good or ill, most committed bloggers live with the constant question in their mind: Is this bloggable? This could become a neurosis, but I’ll put a positive spin on it: It nurtures a habit of looking for insight and wisdom and value in every situation, no matter how mundane.

If you live life looking for what is worthwhile in every little thing, you will see more of what God has to teach you. And the more he teaches you, the more you can teach others. As you begin to be inspired and to collect ideas, you will find that the new things you’ve seen and learned enrich far more of your life than just your blog.

6. …to be known.

This is where I see the greatest advantage for blogging pastors.  Your people hear you teach a lot; it’s probably the main way that most of them know you. You preach on Sundays, teach on Wednesdays, give messages at weddings, funerals, youth events, retreats, etc.  This is good—it’s your job. But it’s not all you are. Not that you need to be told this, but you are far more than your ideas. Ideas are a crucial part of your identity, but still just a part.

You’re a husband and a father. You’re some people’s friend and other people’s enemy. Maybe you love the Nittany Lions. Maybe you hate fruity salad. Maybe you struggle to pray. Maybe listening to the kids’ choir last weekend was—to your surprise—the most moving worship experience you’ve ever had.

These are the things that make you the man that leads your church. They’re the windows into your personality that perhaps stay shuttered when you’re teaching the Bible. Sometimes your people need to look in—not all the way in, and not into every room—but your people need some access to you as a person. A blog is one way to help them.

You can’t be everybody’s friend, and keeping a blog is not a way of pretending that you can. It’s simply a way for your people to know you as a human being, even if you can’t know them back. This is valuable, not because you’re so extraordinary, but because leadership is more than the words you say. If you practice the kind of holiness that your people expect of you, then your life itself opened before them is good leadership—even when you fail.

Conclusion

For most of you, anything you post online will only be a small piece in the grand scheme of your pastoral leadership. But if you can maintain a blog that is both compelling and personal, it can be an important small piece.

It will give you access to your people’s minds and hearts in a unique way by giving them a chance to know you as a well-rounded person. You will no longer be only a preacher and a teacher, but also a guy who had a hard time putting together a swing-set for his kids last weekend. People will open up for you as you open up like this for them. Letting people catch an honest glimpse of your life will add authenticity to your teaching and depth to your ministry.

(Source: Abraham Piper from Desiring God)

My Questions/thoughts:

  • What do you think about blogging?
  • Do you as a pastor blog, why or why not?
  • Does your pastor blog?
  • Do you wish he did?
  • Why or why not?

Interesting discussion regarding ministry and the use of technology.

-jordan

Prayer Requests

Just a few ways you can pray for us this week:

Pray..

that I would have patience in dealing with people.  While you are praying this, please pray that while I am being patient with individuals that I would know the right time to be be sensitive to the needs of the people and when to speak the truth of Christ, even if it hurts.

that I would get some energy.  Most people think I’m a pretty wound up person but in all reality I drain out just like the rest of the crowd.  Pray that I would feel energized this week.  Last week was rough for some reason.  Can I blame the winter?

that Bethany and I would be Godly parents.  We can’t pray this enough.  The more pregnancy continues, the more we realize how close we have to stick to Jesus.  He has always met our needs and He will continue to do so.  Pray that we would make time for each other, talk about what is going on internally, and continue to engage in discussions on how the spirit is moving.

that we would continue to minister to the needs of the church.

that we would radiate the Holy Spirit both vocally and with our actions.

for evangelism opportunities.  Being in the church means that you deal with a lot of people who already know the Gospel message.  Our desire is to constantly make new relationships so that we can share the message of Chrsit with the unsaved.  Often in the church world this can be extremely hard for “pastors”.

that God would continue to show Himself clearly in His awesome and glorious way.  When this happens we get to know more and learn more about our Savior as He continues to move in our daily lives.

If you pray for me/us, Thank You.  It means so much to us both.

To God be the glory,

-jordan

How I Make Teenagers Laugh

Oh, Youth Ministry.

-jordan

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